Sex for the first time can be an awkward, intimidating, and overwhelming experience — but hopefully a positive one, too. What is the first time like for guys? Our cultural understanding of “the first time” is extremely gendered and heteronormative; women’s first sexual experiences are often thought to be painful, and to create a lifelong obsession and attachment with the person with whom they “lose” their virginity. And of course, worldwide patriarchy states that we…Continue Reading