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This year’s chastity experiments have taught me a lot about fit. This is one of those frustrating topics because of the cost of devices and uncertainty about comfort for long-term wear. You’ll hear a lot of people talk about fit and issues, but very rarely are things described well enough to figure out what is going on. One-size fits most is only a good thing if you fall into “most” and especially frustrating if you…Continue Reading

Ben Wa balls are a timeless stimulation aide. These are marble-sized little balls with some weight. You have to insert them in your vagina and perform clench-and-twist exercises to enhance sexual stimulation. Besides, these balls are also used for strengthening the muscles of the pelvic floor. The origin of Ben Wa balls dates back to oriental Taoist sex practices that are being practiced since centuries. These balls are also referred to as Venus balls, Geisha…Continue Reading

Sex for the first time can be an awkward, intimidating, and overwhelming experience — but hopefully a positive one, too. What is the first time like for guys? Our cultural understanding of “the first time” is extremely gendered and heteronormative; women’s first sexual experiences are often thought to be painful, and to create a lifelong obsession and attachment with the person with whom they “lose” their virginity. And of course, worldwide patriarchy states that we…Continue Reading