Wearing a cock cage is no joke, its a serious gear. The metal cock cages such as these, equipped with a hollow urethral probe and locked with a padlock, this chastity cage guarantees that your prisoner will have no hope of escaping! With a length of 9 cm and offering three different sizes of rings for a custom-made incarceration, this penitentiary penis will know how to lock it as it should.
Why use cock cage at all? Well ventilated and open at the end to allow your prisoner to wear his straitjacket for long hours of abstinence, this cage will allow him to urinate and ejaculate if you wish, and you will leave the absolute control of his level of torture thanks to its removable urethral probe.
Opt for one of the three rings that best suits his size, and lock his three-piece suit which he no longer needs inside. Then fix the cage part on his penis so that the top of the ring comes to slip into the dedicated hole of the cage. His purses must hang between the ring and the cage. Now put the padlock through the two holes above the cage to trap it! It is done. But do not go lose the keys, huh! For a better comfort, we recommend to lubricate tail and plums before use. The use of a sterile lubricant is a must for urethral games. The chastity cage must be removed before falling asleep.
Main Features:
- Chastity cage made of metal with urethral probe to stimulate male chastity
- Cage part measuring 9 cm long and 14 cm in circumference
- Cage open and equipped with a penile hollow plug to allow urination and ejaculation during the wearing of the cage
- Removable and curved urethral probe measuring 6.1 cm insert able length and 6 mm diameter
- 3 metal rings for a custom size: 4.1 cm, 4.7 cm and 5.1 cm
- Includes 1 padlock with 3 keys and 1 velvet storage pouch
You’ve probably heard about it in some erotic books that have been popular for a while. However, it is important to say that this saga is not in the image of what BDSM is in reality and that is why I want to demystify here this little-known sub-culture. The masculine will be used for the purpose of lightening the text.
It is important to mention that about 10% of people have BDSM practices, and that there is not a typical profile. They are ordinary people, like you and me. Non-BDSM practices are more like “vanilla”. Some people live BDSM at all times, so-called 24/7. Others focus only on their intimacy and their sexuality on this practice. Still others practice BDSM from time to time, in addition to having vanilla practices. In short, each person chooses their level of practice and whether it becomes more a way of life or an occasional practice. It is a way to add spice, to test one’s limits, to challenge one and, above all, to test one’s trust in the other. Moreover, BDSM does not only revolve around sex, as will be explained later. And moments of intimacy or sexuality are called games or scenes.
BDSM is practiced at home, between consenting adults. Sometimes, some people will create a dungeon (room dedicated to BDSM, with all the toys, instruments and precautions required) at home and receive followers chosen in this private place. BDSM is also practiced during more libertine parties, to the general public, where people will be received in a larger dungeon. These evenings, although open to more people, are very selective and very safe. Security guards are ready to take out people who do not comply with the rules. A dress code is required and consent must be requested at all times, whether to watch or participate. There is no room either for the judgment regarding nationality, gender, sex, sexual orientation and position (dominant, submissive or both) of people.
What do the letters BDSM mean?
This acronym is not chosen at random. BD refers to bondage and discipline. The bondage is actually done to attach or restrict movement by tying with strings, handcuffs, a corset, a bag enclosing a combination of latex or a cage. Discipline refers to obeying one’s master or dominant. It can be flogged, beaten, deprived of sex, forbidden to masturbate for a week, forced to wear a chastity belt / penis cage, etc.
The DS refers to the dominant-subject relationship. The dominant-submissive relationship is a special relationship. It is governed by a contract between the two people, which must state their needs, their desires and their limits. Contrary to what one might think, the subject has the decision-making power to end the stage or the game at any time, using a safety word that will be stated as needed. This relationship is one of confidence, since everyone will test their limits during exchanges. That is why one must be constantly sure to respect the other and to be on the lookout, and to verbalize when something is wrong. This relationship can be destructive if it is misunderstood or if the basics are fragile: BDSM can go play in someone’s head.
Finally, the SM refers to the sadomasochistic component. The pain in BDSM is the tool that boosts pleasure, makes it reach orgasm. It is something sought after, subtle that goes up gradually. Whether to punish a submissive or to give him an orgasm, the pain is used to get closer between dominant-submissive and strengthen the bonds that unite the two partners. It creates endorphin, adrenaline and therefore a sensation that makes you hover. It is expected and desired, anticipated and planned. There are as many ways to practice BDSM as couples of different partners and all are equal. Everyone has to gravitate around the three axes so named to build a relationship that meets the wishes of both partners.
Do Not Get Into BDSM Just Because
This could be dangerous, especially from a physical point of view. There are courses whose purpose is to learn to handle the various instruments, because it is easy to hurt his partner. Some places are very sensitive and should be avoided. Same thing for bondage: you have to know how to tie your partner (because it’s an art!) To avoid cutting off traffic, this could lead to serious injury or even loss of limbs. Lifestyles offers very good workshops to become familiar with the BDSM universe. There are also other precautions to take, including protection, how to maintain toys and equipment. It also avoids mixing drugs or alcohol and gambling, which could be very unhealthy, because under the influence of substances, we lose knowledge of our limits. The goal of wearing cock cages should be about balancing safety and pleasure. Finally, you never leave a person immobilized or attached without supervision, at the risk that it causes discomfort.
Getting Into the Chastity Lifestyle
Chastity cages and other devices that can put a man’s cock on lockdown come with some unique torments and delights. Many guys and couples take up the chastity lifestyle for BDSM play, tease and denial, sexual submission, abstinence, and other kinks.
But are cock cages safe? What should you do in case you decide to imprison your manhood?
What Can Make Wearing a Cock Cage Not Comfortable?
Ultimately, a cage can stop you from getting erections. These devices are created out of metal, leather, or plastic. They also have a padlock with a key. What’s more, the cage has a ring that tightens around the cock and balls. That prevents a man from getting an erection, ejaculating, and limits sexual activity.
What’s more, beginners must know that cages should always be used safely. It’s essential to always keep the chastity key safe. If the cage doesn’t match the size of the man’s cock, it can cause serious discomfort. (READ: Surviving Your First Few Days of Wearing a Cock Cage)
For instance, if your cock is too big for it, you could experience circulation problems. The general rule is to open the cage if you sense that the balls have gone cold or blue. This type of discomfort could lead to long-term problems.
How to Properly Measure for the Right Chastity Cage Size
A cage and its ring need to fit around your cock and balls perfectly. That’s why it’s essential to know how to measure for a cock cage. First, the ring must fit around your testicles without blocking the blood flow. The right circumference should not pinch your penis or cause numbness.
To start out, you’ll need to take measurements of the cock’s circumference. Begin by wrapping some measuring tape around the testicles. The penis should be flaccid and warm. When you measure your size, divide that number by π (3.14). The average measurement is between 1.5 in and 1.9 in.
It’s also crucial to measure the length of your flaccid penis. You should do that with a ruler, starting from the base. However, the tube doesn’t have to be an identical match. It could be a bit smaller (¼ or ½ inch). That will ensure a snug fit that does not constrict you.
Where to Keep the Key of Chastity Cages?
If you’re taking part in chastity play, the chastity lock and key will belong to the dominant partner. Also, you will not be allowed to open the device and pleasure yourself. By surrendering the key, you’ll let your partner gain full control over your sex life. However, the keyholder will have to keep the chastity key safe.
It’s quite common for the keyholder to wear it around their neck. Moreover, you should always have a spare that will be hidden. This key can be used in the event of an emergency, i.e., if the original gets lost. The keyholder could also write down its location somewhere to avoid any complications. What’s more, it’s also worth it to research some keyholder guides to learn how to safely take care of your man’s cock.
How to Emotionally Prepare for Orgasm Denial
Practicing orgasm denial is not for everyone. Submissive partners will need to be emotionally and physically prepared for it. They will be close to orgasm and in an extreme stage of arousal. Total denial can lead to anger, frustration, or even hostility. Thus, emotional preparation requires adequate communication. Partners should talk about their desires and establish some rules.
For example, couples could write scripts, decide on an action plan, or establish a type of “cum countdown.” They could set up rules on how the man’s orgasm will be controlled. It’s vital to take your time and start with short-term chastity denial. Even if it sounds hot, no one likes to be surprised and have their orgasm denied without any warning. That is why it’s imperative to discuss how you’ll tease your man, what he’ll get in return, and how long the denial will last.
Summary
Now that you’re familiar with some of the ground rules of wearing chastity cages, it’s time to get ready, talk with your partner, and lock that cock up! Good luck!